An Anniversary

An Anniversary

It's September 1, which is nothing significant for most people, except that today would have been my 30th wedding anniversary. Now, it's a day like any other, and yet it feels like only yesterday when I walked down the aisle. I would be lying if I said I didn't think about it; it's a marriage [...]

DIVORCED

DIVORCED

It's official, I'm divorced. Another first, making me a statistic and joining thousands of other unsuccessful marriages. I now have to live with the stigma of "divorce" which in my mind equals failure. That said, I am looking at this with glass is full attitude, feeling proud of 31 years with the same partner. Let's face [...]

What’s next?

What’s next?

For those of you who have been following me on my journey, this may seem like an obvious question... what's next?  What is life like after 27 years of marriage, followed by separation and divorce?  I'm trying to figure this out, and I know I'm not the only person out there asking the same question. [...]