Life’s Curve Balls and the Strength They Build

Life throws us curveballs not to make us crazy but to make us stronger. Enough curve balls, you say? I agree — it’s tough out there, and I’m trying not to focus on the negative and instead concentrate on the positive. If we overthink all the bad shit in the world and then throw some personal crap into the mix, it’s a wonder that any of us get up in the morning. The amazing thing is that we do. We are pre-set to persevere and find our happiness, whatever that means to us individually. Can you be happy with devastating circumstances surrounding you? Yes.

Finding the Will to Get Up Anyway

Lately, I’ve been continuously surprised — even in awe — observing individuals who have endured hardship, crisis, illness, or death. How do you come out the other side of something like that? It’s nothing short of a miracle. Even after everything is said and done, we still need to find a new normal or a new happiness, believing that it’s a choice going forward.

When Misery Teaches Gratitude

Does it take someone else’s misery to make us appreciate the small stuff and recognize all the bits we should wholeheartedly enjoy for what they are? Hopefully, it’s just a reminder that none of us is immune from circumstances beyond our control or whatever life throws our way.

Choosing Happiness for Its Own Sake

Can we be happy just for the sake of being happy? I want to think I’ve come a long way from being a material girl — yes, Madonna is in my past — and my life now feels filled with substance. I can’t imagine it any differently. Aside from my recent observations, my life at the moment feels really good.

Snapshot Moments That Define Happiness

Spending a week with my oldest son, sitting on a beach and doing absolutely nothing, was an exercise in finding my happiness. It reminded me that happiness doesn’t have to be loud or complicated — sometimes it’s quiet, simple, and right in front of us. It doesn’t get any better than that. I feel incredibly fortunate for these snapshot moments, and I only wish there were a repeat button.

That special person in my life is important, too. Wanting to share my stories, life, and all things true to me is huge. I can’t share enough, and I love that he shares back; what?! That said, I’m learning a lot about myself, pinching myself, and so much about him. How did I get here? If I’ve learned anything in life, it’s not what you know; it’s what you find when you’re not looking for it. Did I find it?

Have I found my Happy?

Absolutely!

LC

xo