November 18, 2019

O N E H U N D R E D

My 100th post, I can’t believe it!

There were many late nights spent writing, usually with music playing and perhaps a little glass of wine 🙂 It was my husband at the time telling me to stop talking about it, “start writing!” So, with his support, I took the challenge seriously, enrolling in weekend writing classes and deciding, I’m going to do this! Because of that, I created I COVET, which has become a sort of journal. I’ve been writing for almost three years, which has exceeded my expectations, and I am proud of myself for sticking with it. Clearly, I have a lot to discuss and opinions to share, often jotting down notes about one thing or another and snapping photographs to inspire me.

My first blog titled “A New Year,” and a vacant lot across the street from me was home to many events. Seeing the changes there made me curious about what new event would take place next on that lot. This became my metaphor for what events might come next for me.

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I started my journey, fulfilling a lifelong dream of mine. I travelled to Paris, spending a month exploring and living in my favourite city. I wrote several posts about my experience, surprising myself by being able to travel alone and being comfortable with it.

After 27 years of marriage, my husband and I decided to call it quits, writing “What’s Next?”—if anything—gave me the last word and closure. My life was turned upside down; I needed to land on my feet, right side up. Writing kept me sane, made me stronger, and gave me purpose. It has been an incredible journey, even if only three years long. long.

Taking the back seat, my sons were growing up quickly. My oldest was in university and the youngest was finishing high school—these were busy times. It was time to let go, allowing my boys to forge their own paths. “Empty nest” and “Reinventing myself’ had me wondering where that left me. This was a difficult transition, as I tried to come to terms with my new reality of being on my own.

Dating or the lack of it had me concerned—will I ever be with someone again? “Swipe Right” chronicles what life was like on a dating app, which for me confirmed, “it’s a shit show out there!” But, what if you connect with a crush from your past, calling this “Synchronicity,” not knowing the rules? I was let down and decided to move on. Timing is everything.

These are just a few examples of events in my life. I have written many stories, making a conscious effort to stay positive — I like to think there’s always a silver lining. My passion for writing has been a journey in itself; discovering my voice and sharing my experiences has been a process for me.

If I’ve entertained you, made you laugh or cry, or even changed the way you did something for the better or in a different way, then it has all been worthwhile. I’ve loved the journey and I’m not sure what’s next… maybe another 100 posts? Definitely!

Thank you for being there with me.

LC

xo

The comments +

  1. Beverley says:

    Thank you for taking me along on your journey, it has been wonderful and inspirational.

  2. I am glad to have bumped into you here, to have found someone at the same stage in life. Your perspective has been good for me, a little different than I get from my guy friends, an encouragement. Thanks for writing here. May your journey continue to provide you fresh blessings to enjoy.. and to write about!

  3. Wow! Congratulations Llorea. That’s an incredible accomplishment. I’ve absolutely loved following your honest and authentic journey. You’ve come along way baby ;)!

  4. Paulette says:

    It takes a brave person to jump in to the Unknown. You should be proud of yourself. It has been so interesting to be part of your journey.

  5. Dawn Robson says:

    Llorea, I continue to be impressed, and a bit envious of the brave and candid chronicling of your life’s ups and downs. I’ve been cheering your triumphs from the sidelines here in a Texas. Watching the way you have created your own happiness has been inspirational. Here’s to another 100 posts!

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